Saturday, April 15, 2017

Remembering Geoffrey Tinker (Grampa)

Erin's Grandfather passed away on March 22nd, 2017 in his late 90s.  Although his passing was expected and in some ways a welcomed next step for him, I felt sadness at the loss of such a wonderful man.



I remember spending many holidays with him and my Nanny as a young child.  I would wake up early and peek into their bedroom.  Grampa was always awake lying in bed listening to CBC wearing his small headphones.  He would wave and smile.  The special cereal boxes were always waiting for me by the TV in the study and I would spend the next hour watching shows and eating while anxiously awaiting him to join me. 

His love of nature was infectious.  We'd spend our time wandering the local nature trails likely with some neighbour's dog on the leash.  Our afternoons were likely spent nurturing his backyard birds and then sitting down to draw and write about them.  His love for his wife, my Nanny, was pure and knowing she loved watching the birds made his backyard work even more important.  I continue to reflect on their love and devotion and use it as a model in my own marriage.

His unconditional love for me was an important thread that weaves through my childhood memories. It has helped to shape me as a parent.

He was spiritual and found his peace and balance from nature.  I have come to realize that I am much like him in this way and I love watching it develop in our children. 

The name Geoffrey continues as middle names for both my brother Kyle and for Jonah.

The kids and I each thought of words that we felt best represented him and wrote them below.


We then tossed them into the South Pacific Ocean, back to nature, as that seemed most fitting.



We miss you Great G'pa.




Wednesday, April 12, 2017

On the Road again...Waves and WeetBix TRYathlon

In early April, we went in search of more thrilling adventures but this time back up North.  We drove on Friday night to Paihia and Waitangi in the Bay of Islands.  We arrived at our campsite after dark so we set up our tent with the help of the car headlights.

The kids slept well but every time we camp the adults find the ground harder and the thermarests thinner (wimps!).  I think we will consider "Glamping" next time which is the Kiwi word for glamour camping (with inflatable beds).

Saturday was spent surfing and boogie boarding in beautiful Taupo Bay, just North of Paihia.



When we first arrived the waves seemed ridiculously small and you could sense Rob's disappointment.  The guy at the surf shop had warned him to check the wave size (which he didn't).


But his smile returned when we saw 4 surfers off in the distance at the other end of the beach.  They were surfing the big waves!  Mom and the kids boogie boarded and Rob surfed.







Rob struggled to find his surfing groove.  Some of the locals were even jumping in to give him tips.  I think the score was 200:1 for the waves by lunchtime but he never stopped smiling.



The kid's Weet-bix TRYathalon was on Sunday in Waitangi.  The forecast was for rain but it only drizzled a bit and then the sunshine came out.  The swim was a 100-200m event in the ocean, followed by 4-8km of riding and 2km of running depending upon your age.  There were 1500 kids competing that day!




Lots to do in Transition: Socks/Shoes, Shirt, Helmet, Bike...






The kids were nervous in the beginning but were thrilled and proud of their accomplishment at the end.  Naysa said she wants to do another race again soon.








The Weet-Bix TRYathalon is a wonderfully organized event that promotes courage, commitment and exercise.  It has been running for 25 years now and many of the first participants are now parents and are on the sidelines cheering on their own children .  We are so impressed by the people of New Zealand.








Tuesday, April 11, 2017

Shore to Shore 5km Run

The Shore to Shore 5km fun run was this past weekend near our home on the North Shore.  It was a mix of beach and road running with over 5000 participants (mostly kids).  Can you tell it is fall?  Still over 20 degrees in the sunshine! We may never return to Canada.



Rob and Naysa...


Such a beautiful setting...


Naysa wore Rob's heart rate monitor and was clicking along at 180-200 beats per minute at times. She managed to pace herself at around 5min/km and devoured a popsicle at the end.


By the end of this trip, we will all need new running shoes.